ʻAʻole hiki i koʻu kaikuahine ke kuke a ua maikaʻi nō kona ʻohana.

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ʻO kekahi o nā mea i ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia e pili ana i ka hiki ke kuke.

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"ʻAe, hiki iaʻu ke kuke i kēia manawa. He mea pono ke lilo i wahine."

"Lhaa, ʻaʻole hiki ke kuke? Ckckck, ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine kēia.

"ʻAe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke? ʻAʻole i male, ʻo ia hoʻi."

"ʻAʻole hiki i nā wāhine ke kuke."

ʻO nā huaʻōlelo e like me kēia kaʻu e lohe pinepine ai, mai ka waha mai o nā kāne a me nā wahine.

 

ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi he wahine hiki ke kuke. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo kaʻu manaʻo o ka hiki ke kuke ʻo ia… ʻono ka meaʻai. ʻAʻole i palai wale ʻia a puhi ʻia a moʻa ʻia ka laiki akā lilo ia i mush.

 

ʻO kēia haʻiʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo e ukali ʻia e ka hōʻole ʻana ʻaʻole hiki i nā wahine hiki ʻole ke kuke, a ʻaʻole hiki ke kuke maikaʻi, ʻaʻole hiki ke mare. I ka pōkole, inā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kuke, a laila hiki iaʻu ke lilo i wahine ʻino. A laila, ua hoʻopilikia iaʻu kēia manaʻo, a noʻonoʻo iaʻu ma hope o koʻu male ʻana, ʻo ka ʻoluʻolu o kaʻu kāne ka mea nui i ka ʻono o nā kīʻaha ʻaoʻao ma luna o ka papaʻaina, a me ka momona o ka laiki ma luna. mea kanu ʻai.

Makaʻu nō hoʻi au inā ʻaʻole maikaʻi au i ka kuke ʻana, ʻaʻohe kāne e manaʻo he pono wau e mare. A ʻaʻole maikaʻi e lilo i hūnōna kāne. Ua hoʻemi nui ia i koʻu hilinaʻi ponoʻī.

Ua hoʻonui ʻia kēia manaʻo ma muli o koʻu ʻāina ʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea kuke he wahine. He lani ka lumi kuke no nā wāhine. Kali wale nā ​​kāne ma ka papaʻaina. Mai ka mamak-mamak a hiki i nā kūpuna, na nā wāhine e kuke.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia wale nō, ʻoiai ʻo nā hoʻolaha mua a me nā hōʻike televise aʻu i ʻike ai ʻaʻole i hōʻike i nā wahine me ka ʻole o ka mākaukau kuke. Inu pāʻoihana, ʻae kaikamahine. Hana nā hoʻolaha i ka meaʻai palai, nā wahine. Hana ʻana i nā keke Eid, kekahi kaikamahine. Hana nā wāhine i ka tempe palai. Pono nā kāne e ʻai, a i ʻole inā he haʻawina, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nānā wale lākou i ka lumi kuke a hāʻawi i ka paipai ʻana - ʻaʻole ia e kōkua i ke kaʻina kuke e holo wikiwiki a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

A laila, i kona ʻono ʻana, e ʻoi aku ke aloha o kēia kāne i kāna wahine, no ka mea, ʻono ka ʻai. ʻAʻole hoʻi e haʻi aku i ka makua kāne a me ka makuahōnōwai wahine e haʻaheo nei i kā lāua hūnōna wahine no ka mea ʻono ka meaʻai. Duh…pehea ʻoe ka mea hiki ʻole ke kuke?

 

I ka ʻike ʻana i nā haʻiʻōlelo ma ka pāpaho, manaʻo nui au ʻo ke ʻano kūlohelohe o kēia wahine ma waho o ka haʻi ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana ʻo…

 

No laila, haʻaheo ka wahine hiki ke kuke, a ʻo ka nele o ka wahine hiki ʻole ke kuke. No ke aha? ʻAe, makaʻu i ka manaʻo ʻole ʻia ʻo ia he wahine.

ʻAʻole ʻoe he kaikamahine inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke. No laila, ʻaneʻane.

A hiki i kēlā manawa male koʻu kaikuaʻana, a hiki i kēia manawa ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kuke.

 

ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa, hiki iā ia ke kuke i ka laiki a me nā hua manu me ka ʻuala chili. I koʻu hiki ʻana i kona hale, a e kuke ana ʻo ia i kēlā mea, ua hauʻoli wau a nīnau wau, "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke?" Ua pane mālie ʻo ia ʻae ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kuke. Ua haʻi pū mai ʻo ia iaʻu ua hana ʻo ia i kahi kīʻaha i hāʻule ʻole a hana ʻo ia i keke me ka palaoa paʻakikī e like me ka baseball.

Mahope iho, ninau hou aku au, pehea ka pane ana o kana kane?

ʻO Fyi, he 33 makahiki ko'u kaikuahine i keia manawa a he 3 mau keiki. Ua male ʻo ia no 8 mau makahiki, a mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kāna male ʻana a hiki i kēia manawa, ʻaʻohe ona hana kuke e haʻaheo ai. Maikaʻi kāna kāne. Ua hana ʻia he mea hoʻohenehene. ʻAʻole nō hoʻi i noʻonoʻo kāna kāne i loko o ka lumi kuke, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāna kuke ʻana ma mua o kāna. Mai kinohi mai, aole koi kana kane e hiki iaia ke kuke. No laila, ʻaʻole manaʻo ka ʻohana he kuleana wahine ka kuke ʻana.

 

Inā pōloli ʻoe a ʻaʻohe manawa e kuke ai, kūʻai wale. Pilikia loa. wahi a kana kane.

 

Hana koʻu kaikuahine ma ke ʻano he kumu, aʻo manawa piha mai ke kakahiaka a i ke awakea. ʻO ka hana ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka pō. I ka wā e like me ia, ʻaʻole kūʻē kāna kāne i ka lawe ʻana i nā hana ma ka lumi kuke a me ka mālama ʻana i ka meaʻai no ka ʻohana. Hana kāna kāne ma ke ʻano he mea kākau moʻolelo, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā hola hana, ʻo ia ke kumu e hiki ai iā ia ke noho ma ka home.

Ua hoʻololi kēia i koʻu manaʻo no ka kuke ʻana a me ka wahine. He kūʻokoʻa kēia hana kuke. Hiki a pono e hana ʻia e nā kāne a me nā wahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea e ʻōlelo ana e kuke nā wahine a ʻaʻole pono nā kāne e kuke.

 

No laila, pili pū ka manaʻo he wahine maikaʻi ka wahine, he wahine kūpono a he makuahine kūpono, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ia he loea i ka lumi kuke.

 

Hoʻopili maoli ʻia ka ʻōlelo media a i ʻole kaiapuni e pili ana i ka kuke ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo Pōpē, e pili ana i nā wāhine he kuleana ko lākou e lawelawe a hoʻomāʻona i kā lākou hoa. Aia nō ka haʻiʻōlelo ʻo ka poʻe hana ma waho o ka home he mau hana kane a ʻo ka poʻe hana ma loko o ka home he mau wāhine. No laila, ke ʻono ʻole ka kuke ʻana a ka wahine, aia kahi loiloi ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lawelawe i kāna hoa. Ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia he hemahema, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ka kuke ʻana, ʻo ia kekahi o nā ʻoihana home a i ʻole nā ​​​​hana e pono ai ke kino o ka wahine.

Ma muli o ia mea, ma ka laulā, i loko o ko kākou kaiaulu, ʻo ka manaʻo e hiki i nā wahine ke hana i ka lumi kuke a ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hana i kēia mau lā. ʻOiai ʻo ka hoʻi ʻana i ka kuke ʻana, ʻo ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana i ka meaʻai a me ka meaʻai he hana kūʻokoʻa. Hiki ke hana ʻia e ka wahine a me ke kāne. Na ka makuahine a me ka makuakane.

Akā i kēia manawa ua maopopo iaʻu inā hiki iaʻu ke kuke a ʻaʻole paha he mea nui.

 

He pono no ka wahine, e like me ko ke kane. ʻAʻole ʻo ka kuke ʻana ʻaʻole ke ʻano o ka lawelawe ʻole ʻana a me ka hemahema ma ke ʻano he wahine. Eia kekahi, inā i manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole lākou i puka i ka wahine a ʻaʻole kūpono e lilo i makuahine, no ka poʻe haʻahaʻa wale nō ka manaʻo.

 

No ka mea, ʻoi aku ka laulā o ke ʻano o ka wahine a me ka makuahine inā pono ʻoe e kau ma luna o nā ipu ahi a me nā pā.

 

Kōkua koʻu kaikuahine i kāna kāne ma ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā pono o ka ʻohana, e hoʻokō ana i kāna kuleana ma ke ʻano he makuahine o nā keiki 3, e hōʻoia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha iā lākou ʻoiai he mau mākua paʻa i ka hana. A manaʻo wau ʻaʻole hiki ke paʻi ʻia kēia ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia i kuke. No ka mea, ke ho'āʻo mau nei ʻo ia e hōʻoia i ka lawa ʻole o kona ʻohana i ka ʻai akā ua lawa ke aloha a me ka mālama.

 

Me kēia manaʻo, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole wau makemake e kuke, a palaualelo paha e kuke…ʻaʻole.

ʻAʻole hoʻi au e hoʻohewa i nā wāhine akamai i ka kuke ʻana a makemake e aʻo i ke kuke. Aʻole iki.

 

Mahalo nui au i ka hana a kēlā me kēia wahine e makemake e kuke a hoʻohauʻoli i kona ʻohana ma o kāna meaʻai i hana ai. E pili ana hoʻi i ka hauʻoli a me ka pumehana i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e ʻike ai i kāu mau keiki a me kāu kāne e ʻai nui ana a makemake i ka meaʻai i hana ʻia.

 

ʻO ia wale nō kaʻu ʻike ʻole ʻana i ka kuke ʻana ma ke ʻano he kuleana paʻa, ʻo ia kaʻu e kaumaha a makaʻu iaʻu iho.

 

ʻIke au ia he hana maʻamau aʻu e hana ai inā makemake a makemake wau, e like me ke kākau ʻana i nā moʻolelo pōkole a i ʻole ke mele ʻana i loko o ka lumi lumi. ʻOi aku ka ʻoluʻolu, kaʻawale, a ʻaʻole pili i ka manaʻo inā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kuke, a laila e pilikia au i ka ʻohana.

No ka mea, ʻo ka hōʻoia ʻana, ʻaʻole i nele ka ʻohana o koʻu kaikuaʻana, ʻo kāna kāne a i ʻole kāna mau keiki, ʻo ia ma nā mea e pili ana i ka pono, ka hauʻoli a me ka pilina ʻohana. ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kuke, hiki i koʻu kaikuahine ke lilo i makuahine kūpono a wahine.

 

Manaʻo wau hiki i kēia ke hāʻawi i ka ʻike hou a me nā kuanaʻike no nā wahine a me nā kāne ma waho, e pili ana i ka wahine a me ka kuke ʻana. E pili ana i ka hale, ka ʻohana, a me kēlā me kēia mea e hoʻopiha i nā kīhini i loko 🙂

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