GIRLISME.com — Smartgirl, ʻōlelo kekahi ʻo kou waha kou tiger, e nānā i kou waha, a lilo kou waha i pahi kaua. He mea hoʻomanaʻo kēia iā mākou e mālama pono i kā mākou ʻōlelo no ka mea ʻoi loa ka hopena o kā mākou ʻōlelo. ʻO Smartgirl kēia ke kumu e makaʻala ai mākou i nā ʻōlelo a mākou e ʻōlelo ai. Nānā iā ia!
1. He pule ka olelo. E like me ka mea i loaʻa iā malin kundang.
ʻO ke kumu ikaika loa no ka mea hiki ke lilo nā ʻōlelo a mākou i pule. ʻAʻole wau ʻike koke a ma hope paha akā e hiki mai ana, ʻike ʻoe iā Smartgirl. ʻOi loa inā ʻo ia nā ʻōlelo a ka makuahine i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ia ka pule ʻoi loa. Inā hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe i ka moʻolelo o malin kundang, ʻo ia ka nui a i ʻole ka nui o nā ʻōlelo a ka makuahine hiki ke hōʻino i kāna keiki i ka pōhaku. ʻO kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i ke ola maoli ua loaʻa i koʻu hoa pāʻani, i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o ka makuahine 'ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele i ka papa' no laila ʻaʻole hele ke keiki i ka papa.
2. E koho i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono a i ʻole e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pane no kāu ʻōlelo...
ʻO Smartgirl i kekahi manawa ma ke kau ʻana, pinepine mākou i ka pōʻino a i ʻole me ka noʻonoʻo e hōʻeha i kekahi me nā huaʻōlelo a mākou e ʻōlelo ai. Inā hoʻopaʻi kekahi a makemake e hoʻi mai iā mākou hiki ke paʻakikī nā mea. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana o ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia, hiki ke noʻonoʻo loa. ʻO ia ke kumu e kala aku ai mākou inā mākou i hōʻeha i kekahi ma ke ʻano he ʻano o ka ʻike iā mākou iho ua hana hewa mākou a ʻaʻole ʻimi i ka pilikia ma ka manaʻo e hōʻeha i kekahi.
3. ʻO nā ʻōlelo e puka mai ana mai loko mai o kou waha, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka manaʻo ʻana o kekahi iā ʻoe...
No ke aha au e akahele ai? he ʻakaʻaka wale nō mākou! Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻeha, ʻike nō hoʻi ka poʻe ʻaʻole ʻo ia kaʻu e ʻōlelo nei, a ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe ke ʻano o kā mākou hoʻāʻo ʻana me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea i hiki ke hōʻeha ʻia kekahi. No laila, inā ʻoe e hana, e hele i ke kula, e hele i ke kulanui a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe, e lilo ʻoe i kanaka ʻike pono i nā kānaka. Inā ʻōlelo ʻo ia i nā ʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole, nā ʻōlelo hōʻino, nā negativity, a me nā mea waiwai ʻole e hōʻike ana i kona maikaʻi, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻopili pū me kāna ʻano hana i kēlā me kēia lā. Mai pāʻani i kahi hana e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i ka 'naʻaupō' 'off guard' 'pono' i ke kaiapuni no ka mea ma hope o nā mea āpau hiki ke loli e like me nā kau kahi e mākaukau ai mākou no nā kau āpau.
No laila ʻo Smartgirl, ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i ka lōʻihi o ka hopena, makemake mau e pāʻani me nā huaʻōlelo?
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