GIRLISME.COM – ʻO ka wahine a me ka moekolohe, ʻelua mau mea kapu akā ʻo ka mea hoihoi loa ke kūkākūkā ʻia. ʻElua mau mea e hūnā ʻia akā i ka manawa like i ʻōlelo ʻia me ka huhū. ʻO kekahi o nā mea e like me ka wahine he puʻupaʻa. Ua ana ʻia ka waiwai o nā wahine mai kahi ʻāpana hymen, a laila hoʻohana ʻia i hōʻailona o ka maʻemaʻe.
ʻO ka hopena, ʻaʻole ʻike hou ʻia nā wahine ma ke ʻano he kanaka piha, nona ka waiwai o ka hoʻokō, ka hoʻonaʻauao, ka hoʻolaʻa hana a me nā mea ʻē aʻe ma muli o ka himeni.
ʻO ke kūlana o nā wāhine i hoʻohana mau ʻia ma ke ʻano he ʻohi uahi hale, ua hoʻolilo ʻo ia i ka hymen ke ʻano hoʻokae mau loa. He wahine puʻupaʻa a ʻaʻole paha ka wahine ma ka waihona? Ke manaʻo ʻia nā kāne me ka ʻole o ko lākou puʻupaʻa.
ʻOiaʻiʻo…ʻo wai ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka puʻupaʻa kāne??
A laila, lilo ke aupuni o ka wahine i wahi ākea, kahi e ʻike ai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Na ka hoa pili, na ka makua o ka hoa pili, i mea e loaa ai ka inoa o ka wahine maikai. ʻO nā ʻuhane o nā wahine i kūʻokoʻa mua ʻia i lilo i mea ʻai ma mua o ka noʻonoʻo maʻamau, a laila kapa ʻia he mea kūlohelohe.
ʻAe, pehea ke ʻano maoli, nīnau ʻoe a komo i loko o ka himeni wahine??
Akā ma Indonesia, ʻo ka nīnau ʻana i nā mea like he mea maʻamau, a pono e hana ʻia e ʻike inā he laʻa mau ka wahine a ʻaʻole paha. Ua hoʻopili ʻia a ʻaʻole paha.
ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau manaʻo mai ka poʻe ʻike ʻole i ka himeni.
He nui ka poʻe e ʻōlelo nei ʻo ka hymen i haehae ʻia a ʻeha paha, ʻaʻole ia he wahine puʻupaʻa hou, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia. I loko o ke ao lapaʻau, ʻaʻole i pili ka hymen i ka puʻupaʻa. No ke aha mai?
No ke kumu mua, aia nā wahine i hānau ʻia me ka ʻole o ka hymen, a ma ka honua lapaʻau, he mea kūlohelohe kēia. ʻO ia ke kumu i ana ʻole ʻia ai ka wahine o ke kanaka ma ke alo o kāna hymen. Hoʻomaka ka hana ʻana o ka hymen i loko o ka ʻōpū, a ʻokoʻa ke kaʻina hana no kēlā me kēia wahine. He lahilahi a palupalu ka ʻiʻo e hiki ai i kona hoʻokumu ʻana ke kūpono ʻole.
ʻO kēia ke alakaʻi iā mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo aʻe he mānoanoa kekahi o nā puʻu mele wahine a he ʻiʻo kekahi. No nā wahine me ka hymen lahilahi, maʻa pinepine ia i ka haehae ʻana, ma muli o nā hana haʻuki, kaʻa paikikala a i ʻole nā hana kino koʻikoʻi. No laila ʻaʻole paʻa hou ka hymen ʻAʻole ma muli o ka moe kolohe!
ʻO kekahi mea pono e ʻike ʻia, ʻo ia no nā wahine i loaʻa i ka hymen mānoanoa, ʻoiai ua paʻa a ʻaʻole i haehae ʻia, ʻoiai ma hope o ke komo ʻana a i ʻole ka moe ʻana.
He aha ka mea hiki ke hoʻoholo ʻia mai kēia?
ʻO nā mea pili i ka puʻupaʻa ʻaʻole ia he mea i kau ʻia ma kahi ʻāpana hymen. ʻOiai ma ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ua manaʻo ʻia kēia manaʻo he hewa a he kumu ʻole.
No laila e ʻoi aku ka naʻauao o ka wā e hiki mai ana i ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o ka hymen, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he hahau hoʻoweliweli i ka wahine. ʻO ka nānā ʻole ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi ʻē aʻe ma muli wale nō o kahi ʻāpana membrane i loko o ka ʻōpū. Aia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma laila, wehewehe ʻia i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a hiki i ka pae honua-no ka mea, ua ʻae ka World Health Organization (WHO) i ka hoʻokolokolo ʻana i ka puʻupaʻa ma o ka hymen he hana ʻino!
ʻO ka wahine a me ka hymen he mau kikowaena pilikino, ʻaʻole pono e hāʻawi ʻia i wahi e hoʻoweliweli ai, a hoʻonele hoʻi i nā wahine i ko lākou waiwai ponoʻī.
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