GIRLISME.COM – He kia o ka ʻāina ka pāpaho, he nui nā manaʻo, ʻo kekahi o ia mea he kuleana ko ka media e hoʻoikaika i ka ʻāina ma o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ke kaiāulu. Eia nō naʻe, ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole e hoʻokō mau ka media Indonesia i kēia kuleana, ma kahi o ka hōʻike ʻana i nā mea i kūpono ʻole i ka ʻuhane o ka hoʻomohala kaiāulu.
Ma nā hōʻike televise Indonesia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua ʻike pinepine mākou i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i ke aloha kāne a me ka wahine, e pili ana i nā paio i loko o ka ʻohana, inā paha ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine a me nā lālā ʻē aʻe. ʻO kekahi o nā pilikia i hāpai pinepine ʻia e pili ana i nā wahine a me nā hakakā ʻohana. Ma kēia koho ʻana, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maoli aia kekahi mau mea ʻoʻopa a kūpono ʻole i ka hoʻopili ʻana o ka media i nā memo ma ka moʻolelo.
ʻO ia ka hopena i ka pono a me ka manaʻo o nā wahine. ʻO kekahi o ia mau mea e pili ana i ka haʻiʻōlelo paʻa a me ka wehewehe ʻana o nā wahine ma laila.
Hōʻike ʻia ka haʻiʻōlelo e pili ana i ka paʻa ʻole i loko o nā kopa opera me kahi ʻohana Muslim, me nā wahine e hoʻohana pinepine i ka hijab. Ua mare ka wahine i ke kane a ua kukulu i hale. Akā ma ka waena o ka moʻolelo, ua ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kēia kāne nā keiki. ʻAʻole i hāpai ka wahine.
A ʻo ke ala e puka ai ma hope o ia… noi ʻia ke kāne e mare hou. No kona makemake a makemake paha i kona mau mākua. Inā nā mākua, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka makuahine ke kuleana ma ʻaneʻi. Me he mea lā he ʻelua ʻaoʻao wale nō kēlā wahine, ʻo ia ka mea kūʻē a me ka mea nāwaliwali loa.
ʻO ka mea hewa ma ʻaneʻi, ʻaʻole i haʻi aku ka pāpā i ka lehulehu ʻaʻole no ka wahine wale nō ka infertility, akā no nā kāne pū kekahi. Hiki i nā wāhine ke hānau keiki, a ua loaʻa i nā kāne ka manawa like ʻole i ka hānau ʻana.
Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole i hoʻolaha ka media i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ua kālele lākou i ka hemahema o ka hānau ʻana i nā wahine, ʻoiai ʻaʻole like ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Aneane ʻaʻohe moʻolelo o ka hānau keiki ʻole e hōʻike ana i ke kaumaha o ke kāne a me ke koi ʻana o ka wahine e mare hou. Pono e lawe ʻia nā mea a pau mai ka ʻaoʻao o ka wahine i hānau keiki ʻole, ʻehaʻeha, a me nā hakakā o loko no ka mea koi kāna kāne i nā keiki.
Aia nā kaumaha a pau ma luna o nā poʻohiwi o nā wahine, a ke hoʻomau mau ʻia nei kēia e ka media, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻonui kaulike ʻana o ka ʻike.
ʻO ka infertility a i ʻole ka infertility i ʻike ʻia e ka media ʻo ia kekahi o nā hemahema a me nā maʻi o nā wahine, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻike maoli e ʻōlelo nei ʻoi aku ka nui o ka 50% o ka infertility i loko o nā hale e nā kāne.
"Ua manaʻo ʻia aia i kēia manawa he 15 pakeneka o nā hihia infertility ma ka honua. A ʻoi aku ma mua o 50 pakeneka o nā kumu o ka infertility mai nā kāne, "ʻo Sigit Solichin, urologist ma Bunda Menteng Hospital i haʻi aku iā CNN Indonesia.
"ʻO ka infertility a i ʻole nā maʻi hānai i kēia manawa ua ʻike wale ʻia he pilikia no nā wahine, ʻoiai ma kahi o 50 ka nui o nā kumu o ka paʻakikī o ka hāpai ʻana i nā kumu kāne." – Panapana.
Kakaikahi loa keia i ka lehulehu. Me he mea lā e hoʻohana wale ana ka pāpaʻi i nā wahine ma ke ʻano he kahua e hoʻokumu i ka hakakā, ʻoiai he mea kupaianaha ka hopena i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe e nānā.
Pono e hōʻike ʻia ka paʻa ʻole ma nā moʻolelo kopa. ʻO ka hōʻike maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻoneʻe hou aku i nā wahine i kahi kihi, e hōʻemi i ka neʻe ʻana o ke kaulike ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hāʻawi i ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka naʻaupō e hoʻokumu maoli i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana.